Setting Goals in life is essential, especially for teens. Goal setting may be difficult for teens, teens having big ideas and big dreams but don’t have experience in life. Goal setting in Early-stage will change the mindset toward life. We have to set goals in elementary school or in college because it is the time when we have more ideas to achieve goals, more time to accomplish goals, and obviously we have more Energy. Setting goals doesn’t just let teens accomplish their dreams and also teaches them how to manage their lives. So here, we discussed how to set goals for a teenager.
Why we need to set goals in life
Goals are essential in life, goals give a direction to life to grow in a positive manner. A goal is a way to utilize our energy in a positive way. It will preserve us from the distractions of life. Goals will stop us to be trapped in bad habits. Ultimately, goals give meaning to life. Goals give you a long time clear vision and short time motivation. Goals make your time worthy.
Benefits of setting goal
- Goals make your time productive
- Give meaning to life
- Preserve from distractions
- Helps to avoid bad thoughts
- Make your more focused
- Goals make life more realistic
- Increase self-confidence and self-esteem
How as a elders you can help teens to set goals
Adolescence is challenging, they need elders. Teens require support and backup from their elders. Maybe they have a great plan to achieve goals but their self-confidence stops them to perform as brilliantly as they are. Back up them when they fall, support them when they need your support. Guide them if they stuck in the thought process. Tell them failures and setbacks are the biggest lessons of their life. Your life experience helps them to make a difficult decision.
Some ideas for personal goals you can set as a teenager
Sometimes, at a young age, we feel that we don’t have any goal to achieve but believe me there is a lot of personal goals that are pending right now and need your attention. Here is a list of some personal goals to achieve for youths.
- Personality Development
- Learn Time Management skills
- Grow your Productive hobbies
- Add Positivity in life
- Set a Goal for Weight loss/gain
- Add a Good Habit
- Learn short term Courses
Tips to set goals for teenager
Here are some tips to set goals for students.
1. Make your hobby your Goal
First of all, you need to talk to yourself, you need to know your pros and cons. You need to grow your hobby with the passion to set Goals. You never feel bored to do the work that you like. There is more chance to achieve goals in life if it belongs to your hobby.
A good thing about your hobby, you practice it for a long time intentionally or not-intentionally. Suppose you have a hobby to sing and you sang well, you practice it every time, then it will a good idea to be a singer. Give a chance to your hobby, it will be suited best as your goal.
Related: Hobbies you should grow in life
2. Goals should be yours
To set up Goals in life you should be loyal to yourself. You should follow your own instinct, not any mob mentality. You should choose your own goal, not your colleagues’ Goal. Spend some time thinking about your own personal and intellectual strengths.
There always be benefits to chase your own dream, if you fail, your dream will motivate you to achieve the goal. But when a teen sets a goal from the wishlist of others, there will no one who comes to support you when you fall. So, when you set a goal as a teenager you should follow your instincts.
3. Know your limit
Set goals for a teenager could be challenging. Before setting a goal you should know your limit. Set a goal that will be in limit, you should set a meaningful goal. A Goal that can be achievable. If you set yourself up to do things that are a bit too challenging, however, you can end up setting yourself up for failure instead of for success.
Sometimes in teenagers, as we have young blood we set a which is nearly not achievable things. Sometimes, as a teenager, we don’t want to see the reality of things and set a strange goal. I have seen teenagers set strange goals that are beyond the limit, as they set goals like being a millionaire in months or achieve fitness within weeks. Know the limit of things and your goal too.
4. Set Goals in stages
You should set goals in stages: A short term Goal, Midterm Goal, and a long term goal. Connect your short term goal to your long term.
Long term goals are important. It’s vital to teach young people that they can harness any opportunity in life. Long term goals are the goals for life. Mid-term goals are the goals that remind your long-term goal and measure your progress and a short one goal is based on a daily basis, weekly basis, and sometimes a target for the month.
5. Write Down your ideas and break them into small goals
Dream big, start small.
Writing your goals makes you feel more realistic about your dreams. Having a blueprint of your target helps you to achieve your dream. Decide what tasks are necessary to achieve the goal. Is any learning involved? Write down all of the steps, and establish a deadline for each one. You might even want to write them on a calendar.
As a teenager, maybe you have more ideas than the elders. Try to write to them all, even you feel it is not a good idea. Your all small ideas help you to achieve your big goals.
6. Make journey beautiful
Journey should be more beautiful than destination.
Things will take time and your goal also take. There is the chance of complete achievement of your goal as exactly you think is low. The thing may be different, maybe you achieve your 90% of goal or it could be possible you hit your goal in more time than you think. Try to take positive from the journey, enjoy your journey.
Be patient, you need to make your journey beautiful. if the journey is beautiful chance of success will increase. Add fun activity from time to time in between your goal.
The bottom line
Goals give meaning to our lives. And if we manage to set goals as a teenager, then it will be the best for us, our life found direction at an early age. There is always less chance to get lost in life if we have a goal in life. Identify the value of a goal to your life, set a life goal as soon as possible.
We will be glad if you set a life goal after reading this article. As a teenager don’t waste your time and give a direction to your life. We will be back with the solution to another problem. Thanks for reading. God will bless your life.