Stop Self-doubting- it is the biggest obstacle to achieve your goals, handle it

Start with the quote, Self-Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will… and I feel that. Self-doubt is the biggest obstacle that stops us to achieve our dreams. If we couldn’t handle it, we never achieve our goals.

Self-doubt is something like mental paralysis that stops us to do something new or different in life. Self-doubt act as a difference between ‘I wish’ and ‘ I will’.

Whether it is a task that seems impossible to us or it is something new to us, we first believe in ourselves that we can do without doubting ourselves. That’s why we come with an article that helps you to stop self-doubting and overcome the biggest obstacle.

There is a lot of reasons that why you doubt yourself-

Reason for your self-doubt

  • Your comparison yourself with someone good
  • You don’t have enough work to do
  • Your procrastination nature may lead to self-doubting
  • Your negative environment may give you a reason of self-doubting
  • You may have a lot of competition in a certain field
  • or you may have a bad day

By the way, it is okay to have self-doubt, it is human nature but it is not okay to live with it and let kill your dreams. Here we overcome self-doubting just in 7 steps.

7 step to stop self-doubting

1. Stop Judging yourself

“I am not good for nothing”, ” no one likes me”, ” I can’t be rich”, “I don’t have enough talent to get succeed”, “I don’t deserve anything”, these are some most common judgement that you passed about you and they give birth to self-doubt. You make a quick judgement about yourself and losing yourself in self-doubt.

But the reality is that you are too bad to judge yourself and take too seriously your judgement. You don’t even try to your fullest and make a bad assumption about yourself.

Break that nature first of being self-judgmental and second gets affected from the judgements of negative peoples.

Read it: How to overcome the fear of being judged

2. Focus on process instead of the result

Don’t look to the final destination, and pay attention to every tiny step.

For some times especially until you stop self-doubting, forget about the result. And it is true you never achieve success until you achieve the mindset of success.

Without showing concern about final results first you need to focus on the process and try to learn every possible thing that takes you towards the desired result.

Read it: Mindset of success

3. Take a look at your past achievements

A simple hack to grow your confidence, that you should look at what you achieved till now. Take a look at your past and try to find out how you achieve all these things in life.

It doesn’t matter your past success related to your today’s goal or not, or it may match the level of intensity of that goal but what is matter the most you achieve that success from your efforts and core talent and you can take away a note from your past to future.

Shift your mindset toward success and let circulate positivity in your blood.

Read it: Simple hacks to grow self-confidence

4. Stop the comparison trap

You compare yourself because you have doubt in yourself, and you doubt yourself because you compare yourself with someone better than you, and that trap never ends until you stop that shit “comparison”.

Stop comparison, believe me, we are not made for it, we all are different and have different positive and negative things. But we force ourselves to become the same as others, it is quite strange.

Don’t ever think any type of comparison make you feel good, it is the thief of joy because you may find someone better than you in different aspect of life.

Read it: Stop comparison and become the best version of yourself

5. Addressing solution of your problem

If we surround ourselves with problems that it is obvious that self-doubt will come. But if we live with problems we will become habitual to live within self-doubt.

Problems are a part of life and they will come again and again, it is our duty to address the solution of that problem and proceed to the next problem.

Don’t make a collection of problems(it never look cools) otherwise, you may reach to Give-up Level. Instead of that, you should work to find the solution to your life.

6. Let your self-doubt be a doubt

Let your doubt be a doubt, don’t make it the reality of life. No one will remember how many times you fail until you tell them after success.

If you fail to pursue your goal, believe me, no one in this world is free to rethink your failures. Keep trying without doubting yourself because every time you try, the success rate will increase.

Explore yourself and don’t let self-doubting stop you.

7. Keep calm and believe in yourself

You may felt that your hard work is not paying you well and you can’t achieve what you want. But wait a minute before you make a judgment about yourself. Keep calm, you are not special and everyone feels that. But what you do after it makes a difference.

I believe that hurdle comes in life just to make sure that we are eligible enough to run in the race of life and that exactly applies in goals, these hurdles, struggles and hard works are in need for your goal.

Change the path if it is not working but never change the destination. Make your belief bigger than your doubt and start to believe in yourself, and we all have to.

Take away note to stop self-doubting

To do something first we need to believe in ourselves that “we can”, and if we are not able to give belief to us then surely we can’t do it. Give yourself at least a chance to win and believe that you can. Stop selfdoubting and unlock your full potential.

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